Melody Starr Alexander

My deepest condolences.  May these few words from the Holy Scriptures bring you comfort in your time of grief...

John 11:32-45

32 And so Mary, when she arrived where Jesus was and caught sight of him, fell at his feet, saying to him: “Lord, if you had been here, my brother would not have died.” 33 Jesus, therefore, when he saw her weeping and the Jews that came with her weeping, groaned in the spirit and became troubled; 34 and he said: “Where have YOU laid him?” They said to him: “Lord, come and see.” 35 Jesus gave way to tears. 36 Therefore the Jews began to say: “See, what affection he used to have for him!” 37 But some of them said: “Was not this [man] that opened the eyes of the blind man able to prevent this one from dying?”

38 Hence Jesus, after groaning again within himself, came to the memorial tomb. It was, in fact, a cave, and a stone was lying against it.39 Jesus said: “TAKE the stone away.” Martha, the sister of the deceased, said to him: “Lord, by now he must smell, for it is four days.”40 Jesus said to her: “Did I not tell you that if you would believe you would see the glory of God?” 41 Therefore they took the stone away. Now Jesus raised his eyes heavenward and said: “Father, I thank you that you have heard me. 42 True, I knew that you always hear me; but on account of the crowd standing around I spoke, in order that they might believe that you sent me forth.” 43 And when he had said these things, he cried out with a loud voice: “Laz´a·rus, come on out!” 44The [man] that had been dead came out with his feet and hands bound with wrappings, and his countenance was bound about with a cloth. Jesus said to them: “Loose him and let him go.”

45 Therefore many of the Jews that had come to Mary and that beheld what he did put faith in him;

Please go to the following link for more information regarding the Hope expressed in this passage

http://www.jw.org/en/publications/books/dead-live-again-tract/dead-live-again

I have just read melodys story and looked at all of her photos. I'm so so sad for you. It brought back alot of painful memories for me as well. Especially seeing melodys casket. Looked almost identical to my lil Gracelynn. She passed April 12 2007 from sids at 6wks 1 day old. The worst day 9f my life and something that nearly literally almost killed me and destroyed my family causing my husband (whom I've been w for 19 yrs) to separate two times and even file for divorce. We are still together and have worked things out thankfully.  Like you it has also been 7 yrs and it's been a long torturous hell of a time. Thank you for sharing melody w me and know she will constantly be in my thoughts all day today as well as the future I'm sure. My thoughts and prayers are with you as I know you still are mourning for her. If you would like you can find me on fb. Stephanie Frank Goodrich and can see pictures of our family and Gracelynn.  Bless your family and our babies!

Thank you so much for sharing your precious angel Melody with me on the GM site.  Our deeply missed daughters are together in heaven.  I anxiously await the day when we will see our girls faces again when our day comes.

Your story brought tears to my eyes as I stumbled upon it in one of the forums. You have such a gorgeous little girl watching over you. I see that its been a few years for you now, I hope that you are coping a little better. It has only been 4 months for me, since my son gained his Angel wings in Nov 2012. Im still working on his website. Its good to know that I am not alone I guess...and that I know Drake and Melody are probably so happy and playing together in Heaven. <3 I know how you feel, to lose your baby, and feel like your whole world has crashed down in front of you. I hope you and your family are doing well.
Sincerely, a friend in Ca, Jessica

I'm very sorry for you loss. There are no words. I can't say i exactly understand the pain. But I hope the sunny days can look a little brighter. My mom played the Kenny Chessney song at my little brothers funeral when he passed away in Oct. of 2007. My older brother ended up ending his own life in Mar. of 2010. Like I said i can't understand, but i feel the pain of death like a raw bandage. I just want to wish you happy holidays and say that your story brought tears to my eyes. They told me about 2 years ago that i could not have children. I think she is beautiful, she if floating with wings, and even more of a brighter "Starr," ;) thinking of your family and beautiful daughter once again these holidays, wishing the best of luck to you.

Your story was so sad. I had to stop 3 times from reading causing I was crying so hard. I am so sorry for your loss. My angel Haley Raye Brooks was sill born at 37 weeks. My husband and I tried for 4 years to have her. My preng was normal no problems. I went into labor Dec 9th and was told no baby heart beat. my labor went all night and i had her the 10th and they were right no heart beat. My baby was gone. I just have to trust that God had a perpose for her and we will see her again someday. We have a 8 yr girl and 1 yr 9mon son. there is so many tims i put them in the bath together and always put the dinner dishes into the dishwasher and never thought twice. never again i will still right on that floor and watch them the whole time. I cant get preng on my own have to take fertility. took us 1 yr to have our daughter Libby 8 and 4 years to have Haley. after haley passed i didnt want anymore and never took the fertility again the some how by gods grace got preng with my son Conner. all my kids birthdays are in dec. Libby 12-8-01 Haley 12-10-06 and Conner 12-11-08. I got to hold her and take picts and say our good bys. but I could never imag what all of you had to go through. sometimes I get sad a depressed cause i never got to hear her cry or see her smile. Maybe thats a blessing. I dont know. you ever want to chat i am on here of you could find me on face book. Dorothy Brooks. WichitaFalls Tx. my hubby never wants to talk about her like she was never hear so i am lonaly when it comes to that. I will be thinking about you and stop by from time to time to say a prayer for all of you. God bless!

                   Melody Starr Alexander

             July 23, 2005 ~ Feb. 9, 2007

                                

May this candle shine forever in your loving memory!  May God hold you in the palm of his hand! Forever Loved and Missed!

I just wanted to say that I am so sorry for your loss, you are in my prayers and your little angel is now playing with my Little Angel (Khia Grant Jones) he is my grandson and your website is so beautiful can you please let me know where you got the pictures of those angels on her website.

 

 

 

What a beautiful little girl. There are no right words to say, I can't even imagine how you feel but I know you will see her in Heaven. I'm sorry for your loss but I know every day you spent with her was a gift from God.

On December 17th, 2007 We Lost our little girl Makayla Marie. I hate that this happened to you to no one should have to go through what we have went through not even the worst enemy  If you ever need someone to talk to feel free to email your info gcs.techsupport@gmail.com  anytime. My wife breaks done and cries but I can not cry I blame the doctor so I have mainly anger. But it is not as bad somedays.  But if you need someone to talk to or someone to cry on please feel free to contact us

I am so sorry for the loss of this beautiful little girl...She is so precious...Just remember she is always with you..She will never leave you...The pain is so intense right now, i  know you think it will always be like this...It will never leave you, but it will become less intense as time goes by...It will take a whle before you begin to see a little glimmer of light at the end of the tunne...Heck for a whle you won't eve see a tunnel....All we can do is take one day at a time until we are reunited with our angels in heaven...God bless you always

My heart breaks for you, I am so sorry for your loss. What a beautiful little girl you have waiting for you in Heaven. You are so lucky to have known her, so blessed to be her mother.

What a beautiful little girl you had. I'm sorry for your loss. :(

What a precious little girl you were blessed with. She was absolutely perfect, and will remain that way.

God bless you for your strength and courage...

Donna

What a beautiful Angel. Heaven has the most beautiful Angels and has gained one more beautiful "Starr". My prayers go to your family. All my love, Tiffany from SK.

I just spent time visiting your precious little Melody. What a beautiful, special little angel she is........ my tears started flowing and haven't stopped. How do I say I'm sorry? How do I reach across the miles for a shared hug, a shared tear, a quiet sob of sadness?

Simply sayng I'm sorry doesn't even begin to express the sorrow that fills my heart as I look at the pictures of your adorable little girl. She fills my heart and becomes a loss felt so deeply, as if she were my own. How do I say I'm sorry and leave? Those words tell you nothing of the tears, the pain, the sorrow I feel for your loss, for the heartache you must live with.

She's incredibly sweet, so precious. Your heart must ache with sadness. I'm sure the angels are taking good care of her, but you want her in your arms, you want to be the one taking care of her.  

I lost my own son, all we can do is trust in God's love and know that our beloved children are safe in heaven and will not suffer any sadness or sickness, not ever again.

Please accept my tears, my sorrow and my prayers. My heart is with you as you grieve for your precious child.

 

As a Mom of an Angel I understand the pain and the hurt that you are going through. Just remember that she is always there with you watching out for her family. Never be afraid to speak her name or talk about her. Keep her pictures around you. And when someone asks you how many children you have hold your head up high and tell them that you have an angel in heaven.

My thought and Prayers are with your family always.

well as i have sat here for an hour and read your pages and life story of melody i have cried laughed and giggled it is amazing how we can lose something so precious in our hearts so quickly they are flying away into gods hands i hope you are doing good my thoughts and prayers are with you and sonny and the kids love you dealy

I am so sorry for your loss, I can't even imagine what pain you are going through.....I will always keep your family in my prayers.

What a beautiful little girl- so sad to say goodbye to.